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To Tigerparty. 		okay den Tigerparty, 10 Mrt 2020 03:32
if this is a way for me to vent then I'll go ahead.
So i really just feel... like I'm this weak person. Isn't it brave to do things you know to be right for yourself despite there being guaranteed adversity? Everything I do is to avoid bad things happening to me. But... couldn't it be great if I just took that chance?

To Tearshedinheaven. 		weakness Tearshedinheaven, 10 Mrt 2020 16:14
theres no shame in being weak. to be weak is a rebellion in itself. and if you're afraid to be yourself, all i can say is take that leap! that fear of looking stupid is holding you back. letting go of all of that is catharsis.

To Tigerparty. 		thanks for replying Tigerparty, 10 Mrt 2020 18:20
that's good advice but it's definitely easier said than done!
this is from my point of view but i think strength and courage says a lot about someone's character. it's profound to me to see someone flourish out of extreme social/physical/mental hardship, and i wish i could reflect that. but damn is it hard when every time you try and break out of those restraints, something bigger and worse crushes you and makes you even weaker than before. it doesn't even make you want to try again.

To Tearshedinheaven. 		:) Tearshedinheaven, 11 Mrt 2020 03:56
i completely understand how you feel. sometimes youll fall a thousand times before reaching your goal and even once youve reached it you continue to stumble. and its hard to take that leap! its hard to go against your past failures and put yourself out there and it really is a leap of faith. and its completely okay to take your time with things like these. theres no rush or need to force yourself before youre ready.



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