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To Pilot 		Doubts Pilot, 25 Mrt 2023 21:37
Is it normal to have doubts in a new relationship?
Am I a liar? Do I really love him if I‘m scared of better things existing?
I love him he’s beautiful.
Why am I so worried all the time? :(

To Sjeu 		Yes that is very normal :- ) Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 05:58
If you do like to reflect on it, here are some unsolicited suggestions. Please only take what resonates.

Well I'm no expert in relationships but I do know about building up walls. Maybe there is something here for you in this video about this theme.

youtu.be/sYQXGO6U9aQ

To Sjeu 		Also Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 06:00
In my studies to open up for the possibility of positive change and manifesting a better life for myself (+furry en feathered friends) I'm mindful of my words. Inner dialogue and meditation containing; -What if there is a better way- What Else is Possible for me?- I'm Worthy & Curious if there is Some Kinda Way- I'm Open for the Best Possible Outcome for me- Asking; how can I Be The Invitation for it to happen? So I imagine how it would look like and feel as if it's already happened.

youtu.be/j5HvF61whoY

To Sjeu 		And Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 06:02
whenever I catch myself in old negative beliefs, I remind myself how far I've come and I feel grateful for what is already here and for the many lessons I've learned. Somewhere along the way I decided to stop crap-fitting and be brutally honest about my wants, needs and about what behavior in others I no longer accept. I need to trust myself in protecting my boundaries before letting anyone come closer and create a safe space before I communicate about all that.

youtu.be/otynMEeMStg

To Sjeu 		Here's Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 06:04
A beautiful conversation about relating in an authentic and honest way but if you do want to explore a more tantric view for opening up intimacy, it might be an idea to look out for 'the seven veils' ritual.

youtu.be/pdGhuxQU9xA

To Sjeu 		Once in a while Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 06:06
a bit of self-evaluation, shadow-work and/or parts-work helps me out and also learning about the various side-effects from a nasty and unsafe upbringing. A nice resource for that is this YT channel;

www.youtube.com/@CrappyChildhoodFairy/videos

To Sjeu 		For Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 06:08
a more scientific view, here's a wide-range list of publications on relating


valtsus.blogspot.com/2014/10/human-relationships-studies.html

To Sjeu 		But it might even Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 06:14
be more interesting for you to learn about your prevalent attachment style. This will help you to gain a lot more insight on your emotions and actions. It's kind of like the base part of every other element mentioned above.

To learn about certain dynamics can be insightful;

https://youtu.be/-EXMOxzmAm8

To Pilot 		wall!! Pilot, 26 Mrt 2023 19:06
I never looked at self improvement as anything else but change.
Things are how they are supposed to be, they should be happening. O my:( what a wonderful thing

To Sjeu 		Maybe it's not so much about changing Sjeu, 26 Mrt 2023 20:43
but about just allowing more options in when it comes to your future path. To look beyond the programming and surpass resistance and other peoples expectations.
Learn to surf any wave without fear, because you know how to swim when you fall in the water. About setting out your own track and moving gracefully in your own pace. To choose peace of mind over people pleasing. About You letting You be You.

Unapologetic.

Only you decide what it means to you.
Only you choose how to carry yourself.

To Pilot 		:( Pilot, 26 Mrt 2023 18:57
beautiful

To Pilot 		Mom Pilot, 25 Mrt 2023 20:36
The world is crumbling over me
And you know what you do?
You make it crumble under me too.
Now everyone has to deal with all my tears!
What a muddy mess I’ve created.


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