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To Sjeu
Shoyego.here Sjeu, 22 Jun 2023 10:01

is a word I recently learned. It's about Intentionally sharing the joy of someone relating a success story by showing interest and asking follow-up questions.

It's from a book by Brené Brown called Atlas Of The Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience.

Another word she introduced is Bragitude; Intentionally tying words of gratitude toward the listener following discussion of personal success.

For me it doesn't include random spam + commercial advertising.

posttraumaticgrowth.substack.com/p/13-atlas-of-the-heart-by-brene-brown


To Sjeu
Ever heard about near and far enemies? Sjeu, 22 Jun 2023 10:02
Far enemies show disconnection and near enemies are what drives a disconnection. They are more dangerous and sort of hidden. For example

Love; It's far enemy is absence of love. It's near enemy is attachment (clingy vs. free-flow)

Compassion; It's far enemy is cruelty. It's near enemy is pity.

I found this interesting.
Connection; it's far enemy is disconnection. It's near enemy is control. This is deeply rooted in most of our systems. Emotional, cultural, political, digital etc.

To Sjeu
Diving into that I found Sjeu, 22 Jun 2023 10:03
that our ego's are about protection. The ego shows a fear of receiving love by taking control. The ego shows love in trying to connect that fear (by taking control). Ego contains some judgement while your intuition does not. That's how to discern. And how to extract wisdom from feeling resistance. Noticing this dynamic within yourself helps you feed your (at most 5%) conscious mind with impact on the 95% unconscious mind that drives us most of the time. It's connecting you in stead of the fear.

To Karazi.
Bugego.here Karazi, 05 Mrt 2022 10:35
Hello miss how are you


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To Candelitarex.
...ego.here Candelitarex, 17 Jan 2022 13:59
this site is kinda interesting

To Nothing.
Mots de sagesse.ego.here GS, aucunement, 26 Feb 2012 21:26



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